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Journal Entry: Wed Oct 22, 2008, 8:51 AM


I just have to get this off my chest. So, today during lunch there was a young woman in our group constantly going on how police officers are corrupt and they smoke crack that they confiscate from criminals etc. Well, it turns out that my dad is a cop and a damn good one too. I couldn't help but feel offended since I know what good guys the local police force are. They risk their lives everyday trying to protect us and here is this snot going on about how shady and dishonest most cops are.

I tried talking to my boyfriend about it, and it turns out he has the same opinion as the girl. I mean, WTF is wrong with you dude? He says that my dad is just a special case. He forgets that my family of cops (which includes my mom and brother-in-law) are spread out over three counties and three different police forces. That's a lot of "special cases" for cops. Don't you think? Well, anyways, I'm just frustrated. I feel like he's angry at me for standing up for myself and my family--like I'm taking it too personal or something.

Then I was told I was close minded for not drinking alcohol. My reason for not doing so, is religious. I've made a commitment with God to not do certain things with my life and I don't think I should be judged and criticized because of it. Once again I was on my own defending my views. It's not like I'm terribly conservative or anything, but I feel like I deserve a little more respect.

Well I'm not particularly angry about it, just a little hurt.

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:iconlillymon:
I don't know about the police in your country but maybe your friend and boyfriend have had some experience *not necessarily a personal* to make them believe so idk.
Ask them why do they think so ? I mean, what sort of proof do they have to back up their claims ? Sure there are good and bad everywhere but to generalize like this, I think it's unjust for those who do work devotedly.


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:iconcoppeliad:
I understand how you feel. My dad was a criminologists who trained many police forces. When my mom was fighting corruption in the non-profit organization she worked at, it was the city's police force who protected her from the death threats, etc. They wouldn't have done that if they didn't care. (at that point my parents were divorced) They were good guys.

I also know my university's police chief. Totally good guy.

Yeah, there are bad police, but half the people out there are just pissed they got a speeding ticket.

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:iconhikarisama2007:
the image of cops is deteriorated... but i still believe, as you do, that there are good ones -and bad ones, too as in every human activity-... i find more offensive the fact they call you 'close minded' for not drinking... that's absurd... who can be such an hipocrit and call him/her/their self/ves 'open minded' when they do not respect other people's religious/political ideals? -sorry if i sound annoyed, but i 'suffer' for the same situation often, and it makes my temper go ';pwoof!- i find amaizingly stupid the people that call themselves 'free thinker' and then call you 'close minded' when you do not think alike. Stand for your promises! that's the best thing for you to do n__n hang in there! ;)

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:iconhisaki-kage:
WTH?! Only BAD cops do shit like that! And that's a rarity! I mean SERIOUSLY! I love my police officers! I wanted to be one! All the police men and women I have met have been SO nice. I mean there are a few that have a stick up their arses but still! I would just punch those people!

And good for you about not drinking alcohol. I'm not going to because I have alcoholics in my family. I'll probably get drunk once in my life, but other then that, no more. *nods*

You have every reason to be upset. THEY are the close minded people. If they can't accept that there are good cops. *shakes head and sighs* And that they just pat you on the back and say you're the exception.

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:iconarina-shirakawa:
That's the problem I blame it on main stream media for distorting everything. You have to understand that the reason why most people think that way is because all the media does, is to report the bad side of things. How often to you hear good stuff about cops on tv? All you hear is "this cop beat up some woman in a bar" (this was true, it happened here in Chicago), "and this cop took some money and let people go" etc.

It's sad, but most people generally follow and believe what the media says...

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The crumby bit is, that it’s the handful of bad cops that get plastered all over the nightly news, while the majority of good officers who go about their daily duty protecting and serving that never get noticed :(

And the not drinking thing... well, as a drinker, I have no problem respecting people who don't drink. Everyone should have the right to make their own decisions about what they put into themselves... I mean, that is common sense right?! So don't let fools who don't understand get you down! :glomp:

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I respect cops for what they do for us and what they mean for our safety. It is only a select few bad cops that get reported on, and the reputation of all the good cops out there gets slandered like this. I think its ok for people have their opinions, but they should do a little research into what actually goes on, instead of listening to hearsay and what is reported on mainstream tv.

As for drinking, I do not want to drink ever. I see what it does to people, and I just dont want that happening to me. I think its find that you dont drink because that is your choice. You are not hurting anyone by not drinking, and that is probably for the best.

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:icondamiset:
I've met some bad cops and it's true that there are quite a few, but they most certainly do not make up the majority. At least not since the 50s or so. People just think it's cool to disrespect authority.

Also, you shouldn't be getting made fun of for not destroying your own judgement due to peer pressure and killing whatever brain cells you have D; I never found alcohol all it was cracked up to be and I certainly find there to be no reason for them to try and manipulate you into doing it

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